
Choi Jin Shil‘s ex-husband, Jo Sung Min, has reportedly committed suicide … and whatever.
I’m probably gonna get shit for this opinion, but I honestly don’t care for a variety of reasons.
The late Choi Jin Shil‘s ex-husband Jo Sung Min has committed suicide.
Recall that Choi Jin Shil committed suicide in October 2008, and her brother also did the same in May 2010. The tragedy is followed by yet another suicide. Jo Sung Min was found hanged in his girlfriend’s apartment. Though the police are still investigating the matter, as of now, it seems Choi Jin Shil’s children have lost another dear one to suicide.
Jo Sung Min had long suffered from hate comments ever since his wife’s death. Not only that, he used to be an excellent baseball player, but suffered various problems through injury. Many pitied his life, but also lamented for the two children he left behind.
Just a few days ago, the children Hwanhee and Junhee had thanked comedian Lee Young Ja for taking good care of them, showing bright smiles on screen.
Our hearts go out to Hwanhee and Junhee, and everyone else who were affected by this devastating news.
So why don’t I care about a person killing himself, right?
YOU COLD HEARTLESS FUCK
Well, I guess you could look at it that way, but my feelings are mainly because his ex-wife committed suicide herself (as I’m guessing you’re at least somewhat familiar with), and that came after a messy marriage/divorce in which he beat the shit out of her while she was pregnant with their youngest child.

Oh yeah, he was also cheating on her.
Additionally, as a result of photos like the one above becoming public, she was sued for being abused by him. No, really. Contrary to popular belief, the suit was not filed posthumously, so she was well aware that not only was she beaten, but that she was being blamed for it. To top it off, after her death, the court ruled in favor of the company, officially confirming by law that it was all her fault. Awesome, right? Just swell.
So while you could say that him being an utter dick and her suicide weren’t directly related, it surely didn’t help her situation. Like … at all.
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All of that would honestly be enough for me, but it still just scratches the surface, really. Choi Jin Shil’s brother, Choi Jin Young, who was a significant presence in taking care of her children after her death, also committed suicide. He suffered from depression, apparently, so there were other factors at play in this death as well, but being involved in a long and messy fight over custody of Choi Jin Shil’s children with Jo Sung Min probably didn’t help.
Speaking of that, what about the kids though, right? Their dad is dead, after all.
Sure, they’re now the real victims in all this mess. However, their dad dying is probably less of a tragedy considering he was a deadbeat until his ex-wife’s death, at which point he basically tried to latch onto the kids and his ex-wife’s estate in a custody battle.
The facts of the case paint Jo as a deadbeat dad who gave up all responsibility (if not legal rights) for caring for his kids four years ago.
Basically, Jo Sung Min apparently only cared about her estate and not the kids before netizens called him on being a complete asshole, after which he went on television and said he only wanted the kids.
Well, that makes up for all of it.
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Look, I’m not saying he deserved to die, but on all these sites, there are people coming out in sympathy for him and it’s making me sort of sick, honestly.
The kids truly deserve your thoughts and the help of others. Him? Whatever.
Dude was seriously a piece of shit, so it was one of those situations where I didn’t care whether he lived or died, and now that he’s dead, that’s just exactly how I feel … nothing.
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Welp, I only really felt sorry for the kids and how they lost both their parents and uncle in a relatively short period of time and they’re still so little.
I mean, his suicide comes just days after the kids thanked Lee Youngja for taking care of them so I can only assume that he wasn’t even their lives prior to taking his own life.
He probably regretted not being there or just felt that them going on TV was like the last straw and the ultimate blow to his person (I’m inclined to go with the latter) after his fall from grace.
Now that I know he was a wife beater and a deadbeat dad, dude can rot, tbh.
I agree, I just hope the kids will be okay.
Sometimes when a woman gets beats, it’s her fault overly aggressive and won’t stop until the other person reaches their breaking point
Being a woman doesn’t give a pass from getting your ass whooped when you step out of bounds or out of line…..same applys to a male
I seen it many times when a woman just will not stop and initiating the contact
It is never ok to beat a woman. Ever.
You are completely, utterly and offensively wrong.
You’re joking right?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fj6ic__uF-o
I’m all about gender equality and I see your point, Koreanboo … in theory. The only problem is that even if a woman really wants to beat up a guy, she’s gonna have a damned hard time doing it. There is simply a huge strength differential. I think AJReplier’s video makes this point very well. That little bitch is raging on that old guy, but it only takes a half-assed punch from him and she’s on her ass. For this reason, men should never hit women. The man should always be able to walk away or restrain the woman instead.
It’s okay though if it is for self-defense like in that video. Guy did nothing wrong.
If he jumps her after knocking her out, then it would be fucked up. But in this case it was totally alright.
You better watch it, No_Min. I’m gonna knock you out and jump on your fine ass!
No. Who am I kidding. I’m sure you’d be able to take me. I am weak and don’t have your fighting spirit. :(
Sean Conney agrees with you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJWfObq2cFk
^Connery
So call the cops?
Lots of women get arrested for battery.
I’m not sure what you’re arguing here.
I kind of still feel sorry for him…I think it takes huge amounts of sadness to finally decide killing your self, and I feel sorry because he was sad. Even though he’s a bastard. Hah. I’m such a softy. :/
I feel even more sorry for the kids, though. They’re too young to be dealing with losing three loved ones. :/
Oh, that’s the guy.
I have read about this case on some site totally unrelated to k-entertainment because people were so fucking shocked.
And then I also found this:
“Even after the actress’s unforeseen and unfortunate death, on June 4th, the Supreme Court reversed the original decision and ruled in favor of the construction company, pushing the huge financial responsibility upon Choi Jin-shil’s 8 year-old son and 6 year-old daughter.”
(source: http://popseoul.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/lawsuit-against-choi-jin-shil-means-no-rip/comment-page-1/)
Not entirely sure if this is legit though because more sites would have probably reported it and the outcry would have been even bigger.
I read her brother tried to pay the debt by taking money from loan sharks but ended up killing himself as well.
So who has to pay the debt to that stupid company now? The children? Or will those assholes drop it?
Also no sympathy from me, btw. Couldn’t care less.
No sympathy from me either. This guy beat the shit out of her, which is probably one of the reasons why she later killed herself. Hope he enjoys rotting in hell…
That’s horrible :’(
Story is legit and there was an uproar at the time.
Not a Korean lawyer, obviously, but I think that in Korea debts don’t get passed down to the children.
Yeah. In the case of this asshole, don’t really care. However, I do feel badly for so many others living under the stigma of depression and mental illness, in South Korea and elsewhere. It seems that these new mental health checkups are rather cursory, but I hope it’s a sign that the stigma is dissipating. http://www.humanrightskorea.org/2012/mandatory-mental-checkups-in-2013/
Fucking. e____e I hope the kids get out okay.
I just feel really, really sad for the kids
I couldn’t feel anything for Jo Sung Min.
I just feel bad for the kids.
I never have sympathy for the dead unless they do leave behind a horrible reputation like this. There is no such thing as pure evil. It’s easy to write out someone’s horrible actions and be like “yeah, we’re better off without them.” But to me, that’s the most sad – that they’ve left behind this kind of shame, and that’s what makes me the most sad for the kids as well – that they’ll always have this shame of a father, who never got a chance to redeem himself in any form.
When someone dies leaving behind a positive image, I’m just relieved for them and sorry for the people who will miss them. When someone dies leaving behind this disgusting image, ugh.. no one wins.
Jesus christ your attitude toward death pisses me off. You only feel sympathy for people who are known to be huge sacks of shit? You feel sympathy for them that society judges their actions as unacceptable? No shit morality isn’t black and white, but if you beat your wife and then sue her for letting other people know, it is only right that society fucking hates your guts for it. Because you would deserve that legacy. It deters other people from making the same abusive and terrible choices when they know that it is not socially acceptable. I don’t believe even the worst persons deserve death, but voicing your sympathies (and specifically stating you ONLY sympathize with vile motherfuckers like this) is a voice of support. That’s disgusting.
Dead people do not want to be dead. It’s not a goddamn relief that someone who made a positive impact in the world dies, fuck you. If you think death is such a relief then why are you still alive.
Because I have to leave a positive legacy behind lmfao calm the fuck down. Everyone has a different opinion on death. I’m obviously not supporting his actions by pitying him what logic is that
Death is a gift. I’m not bad for thinking so, nor am I alone in thinking so.
I can’t sit here and explain my entire self-formed religion, but um, everybody dies bro – all you can do is leave behind some sort of image, so why would I be sad for a person who’s left behind a good one? They’ve done all they can do. That’s my opinion…
… you might wanna um watch out attacking people for shit like this, it’s super rude.
Wow calm down dude. ‘Dead people do not want to be dead’, tough luck since death is inevitable and all.
My dad committed suicide when I was fifteen and he was a son of a bitch. Still, you never really fill that kind of hole no matter how selfish and shitty that person is– they’re still a part of you. Those are the real victims here, his children. I couldn’t even imagine two parent’s killing themselves. Fucking sad. Hopefully these kids will have happier lives as they grow older. They deserve it.
Sorry to here about your loss, even if you don’t feel sorry to have lost your father. I agree with you, the children are indeed the victims in all of this.
Well my father is a person who’s been in and out of jail and haven’t token care of me since I was born, but I was able to erase his existence all but completely out of my life. It depends on how one choose to view relationships between oneself and others. I choose to ignore him and his influence (however much there was to begin with) because he wasn’t much of a help to me at all :X
Recognize that he wasn’t directly attributable to having her sued because of his abuse. There’s nothing that I myself could really implicate him for when it was the agency that hadn’t had the heart for her and decided to put their own image ahead her own well-being. I thought empathy would be an expected moral response here. I guess not. Granted it wasn’t their problem if she had personal problems but to me it is beyond asshole to sue someone based on situations that they hadn’t necessarily been asking for.
And who knows, maybe this guy felt bad for having done what he did and being partly responsible for his wife’s suicide that he decided to kill himself. I don’t know why there would be anymore anger here as both the wife and husband are now not alive so the purpose of anger here would be inapplicable. The kids are an unfortunate consequence but they are not impaired for the rest of their lives. People shouldn’t be spreading their anger and hate to present a uncomfortable environment around the kids to pass blame around. They shouldn’t be handicapped in a way that they would be unable to move on from these unfortunate happenings.
All the best to everyone involved~
Sure, but that whole chain of events could have been prevented if he wasn’t so fucking worthless.
I remember when news broke of Choi’s suicide, so sad :’( and then her brother too (he was going to return to acting and wanted to continue help raising the kids since that deadbeat dad gave up his rights) :’(
I honestly cannot feel anything toward his death since he was an asshole
And that company is nothing but scum
I just hope the children don’t kill themselves ;_;
The suicide rate in South Korea is the highest in the world.
I imagine it is a much tougher society to find happiness in at least partly due to all the rigorous social customs.
Japan is second?
Korea overtook them?
Suicide is the #1 cause of death for people under the age of 40 in Korea.
As mcf said, Korea has the highest suicide rate in the world. Japan is 3rd.
Not only did they overtake them, the rate is quite a bit higher than Japan:
http://newamericamedia.org/2012/09/south-koreas-suicide-rate-remains-highest-among-developed-countries-1.php
My peeps are also up there – well fuck.
Probably cause I don’t live there anymore and they are missing a huge part of the awesomeness.
Apparently the US is only 18 out of 34…woot…
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_OECD_countries_by_suicide_rate
We’re not perfect, but we are at least beginning to recognize mental health is as important as physical.
As in, public figures coming out with mental illness is not longer taboo or rare.
I’m sure that helps.
Uh … wow.
And yet the Korean govt. doesn’t do much about it
http://www.netizenbuzz.blogspot.com/2013/01/conspiracy-whats-with-all-these-scandals.html
Korean Congress is more concerned with making themselves richer…
Seeing South Korea’s rate increase 50% in the last six years while the OECD has decreased is deeply concerning.
And the male rate is nearly double the female rate in South Korea. *Triple* for Japan.
A change in the way of dealing with emotions and depression is desperately needed. It’s time to get out of The Aokigahara Forest.
All of this is just terrible. I also agree with KPanda that this is a terrible legacy to leave behind. One that the kids will have to deal with for the rest of their lives,just hope they can come out of it.
Every angle of the story is just so horrible it’s hard to believe. The only thing you can really hope for is that the kids are young enough that they’ll be able to leave all this awfulness behind them.
Aww man! I hope those kids are taken care of by someone.
Yeah I can see why you don’t care.
What the FUCK. His will comes out, he apologizes to everyone but the wife he beat, and people start saying about how it is SUCH a tragedy. I’m sorry, but wtf.
Seriously, his death is exactly as you said, Oh Well. His children would be better off without him.
Koreans doing what they do best.